15-09-2019 03:20 PM
15-09-2019 03:20 PM
I am taking it slow @Former-Member - that is the only pace I have today lol
You have a big couple of days coming up with the funeral so reach out when you need to help you get through the day ![]()
15-09-2019 03:48 PM
15-09-2019 03:48 PM
Hi @Shaz51 👋💕
It was easier to tag you and Darcy to this thread than repeat the post on the other one on Carers side. I finally worked out that my unwell feeling was a detox reaction.
I hope you are feeling a bit better for having a rest day today. I am sorry to hear your Mr. Shaz is sick, but it does explain how he was feeling this morning too.
15-09-2019 03:55 PM
15-09-2019 03:55 PM
headache ✔️
nausea ✔️
flu-like symptoms ✔️
bloating ✔️
brain-fog ✔️
tender lymph nodes in my neck ✔️ --- wow @Faith-and-Hope , what do you do for it -- just reading about metabolic syndrome
good idea tagging @Former-Member and me
15-09-2019 04:01 PM
15-09-2019 04:01 PM
Our @Faith-and-Hope is certainly not very well today @Shaz51 and you are having a rough day too. My thoughts with you both 💜💙💚🧡💛💐🌷🌺
15-09-2019 04:13 PM
15-09-2019 04:13 PM
It’s best to check anything medical with doctors @Shaz51 , but this is what I have learned, and checked with doctors.
Metabolic syndrome is apparently caused by three things (generally speaking cos there might be other factors that compound it).
- Lack of exercise
- Poor dietary balance
- High stress / anxiety
It can also have a genetic predisposition, apparently.
I walk a lot, most days, and lift and carry heavy art equipment, so that is plenty of exercise - checked with doctors.
I have a good balance with dietary intake - checked with doctors and a dietician.
I have high-stress and anxiety-producing circumstances, but leaving them is likely to make this side of things much worse, for me and everyone else involved - checked with counsellors with expertise in the field we are dealing with.
Generic factors I can’t do much about .....
So, what I have to do about it is work at reducing the effects of the stressors I have to deal with. Going to uni and immersing myself in my art is one way of doing that. Another is to see a counselling regularly and talk about what is happening.
I have also targeted two things that cause me difficulty and distress - trying to manage a difficult nail condition, and trying to look after my tricky hair ..... so I get help now with both of those.
I also get neck and back massages occasionally, because that is where I tend to store stress in my body.
I also listen to music, and take myself out for a coffee somewhere every day.
I used to catch up with friends regularly, but since we moved I have only made some new ones in my course, so being at uni ticks that box for me too.
I am a believer, so going to church helps me to believe I can get through this, and look for moments of joy wherever I can find them, usually in the little things.
How’s that for a big answer ?
15-09-2019 05:23 PM
15-09-2019 05:23 PM
thanks for the big answer my friend @Faith-and-Hope , sending you hugs ![]()
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I am a believer too @Faith-and-Hope , so going to church helps me to believe I can get through this,
just i have lumps turn up in my neck when i eat , going to see the doctor this week
funny -- mr shaz reminded me of my letters of check ups which i have not done yet xxxx
@Zoe7, @Former-Member , @outlander , @Maggie
15-09-2019 05:28 PM
15-09-2019 05:28 PM
That doesn't sound very good @Shaz51 so good you are going to get a check up. Keep us posted on how it goes. You have been really unwell with a lot happening for you lately my sister so I hope it is nothing serious - hugs Hon ![]()
15-09-2019 05:29 PM
15-09-2019 05:29 PM
i feel it is the same my @Zoe7 , but i will keep my apptments xxx
15-09-2019 05:31 PM
15-09-2019 05:31 PM
Best to get checked out @Shaz51 so you can stay on top of things if there are any issues.
15-09-2019 05:42 PM
15-09-2019 05:42 PM
How are you going this afternoon @Faith-and-Hope? Are you still in the coffee shop Hon?
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