Morning has broken

[Eve7]

Thank you @rav3n  I am ok just finishing the junk cupboard clean up. It’s taken most of the week and been very confronting facing the memories that were stored in there.

What are you doing today?

[rav3n]

ooft that sounds both physically and emotionally exhausting @Eve7 glad it's almost done now! how's your weekend plans looking? 

today i have an appt, then my sister's picking up my car (i got ceramic coating done for it) and bringing it home - bit nervous to see it, i'm hoping the car place has done a good job. might go to bed a bit earlier today, need to catch up on some sleep!

[Eve7]

It’s been very emotionally draining as I had all h’s medical records stored in there @rav3n and today I found my brother in law’s su…cide note. Just taking a break now as it’s become too hard.

I have a 50th birthday to attend tomorrow so something to look forward to. An early night here also.

[rav3n]

that makes a lot of sense, finding those medical records and the note sounds really heavy - take as many breaks as you need @Eve7 sending you gentle hugs 💙

50th sounds nice, hope you have a fun time! is it a big gathering? 

[Eve7]

I don’t know how many will be attending @rav3n 

Trying hard to finish this cupboard today but it’s so overwhelming. My sh is having a win today.

[rav3n]

i'm so sorry that the SH is strong today @Eve7 you're doing the best you can, i hope you can be extra kind to yourself today.

would ringing a helpline while you work through the cupboard be helpful?

sitting with you.

[Eve7]

Possibly might help @rav3n  but I need to push through and get this job done today.

[rav3n]

feel free to use the forums as your break space too @Eve7 

sometimes when i'm feeling a lot but need something to quickly boost my mood so i can continue with my original task/plan, i hop onto threads like What has been your highlight today, no matter how no matter how big or small or Welcome to the smile zone! for a couple mins

got my fingers crossed that the cupboard gets done today!! but if it doesn't, it will be okay too. we'll support you through it

[Emelia8]

Hugs @Eve7 🤗 my thoughts are with you as you continue to sort through that cupboard. A difficult task indeed 💕

Hi @Snowie 👋

[Eve7]

Thanks @Emelia8 there was far more triggering content than I realised. Just found a note written by gd1 to Papa in heaven on his birthday 😢

Just the games on the top shelf to throw out now. They hold many happy memories too.